The
expression of frustration could have been sent from any tier in
travel-restricted Britain: “Where do you go in July? For me, I cant answer. I
am longing to go to London, & hoping to the last. That is all. For the
present, ... certainly the window has been opened twice – an inch – but my
physician shakes his head or changes the conversation (which is worse) whenever
London is mentioned. But if it becomes possible, I shall go – will go! Putting
it off to another summer is like a never.”
Elizabeth’s
life story isn’t just a useful guide to working around isolation, though. There
was, eventually, an end to lockdown. Poems (1844) had also inspired the young
Robert Browning to contact her. When the pair eventually married, it was to
Italy that they ran away together. The next 15 years, though latterly marred by
the recurrence of Elizabeth’s ill-health, were a period of glorious nomadism.
Working from abroad and searching about to create their ideal lifestyle, first
in Pisa and then in Florence – with stays in Rome, Paris, London and Le Havre –
the Brownings lived the life of perpetual adventure that today’s digital nomads
have rediscovered.
Fiona Sampson, author of a new biography, Two-Way Mirror: The Life of Elizabeth Barrett Browning,discusses the life and work of the Victorian poet. Although perhaps best known for her runaway romance with fellow poet Robert Browning, Elizabeth also battled chronic illness and family troubles to create influential activist writing and ground-breaking poetry.
During her lifetime she was one of the most admired poets of the age; a framed portrait of her hung in the bedroom of Emily Dickinson, and when Wordsworth died in 1850 there was serious talk of her becoming the first female poet laureate. Since her death in 1861, however, her reputation has sunk like a bad soufflé.
For many readers, knowledge of her poetry is now restricted to a single line reproduced every year on thousands of Valentine’s Day cards — ‘How do I love thee? Let me count the ways’ — while her lifelong struggles with illness and laudanum addiction have been replaced in the popular imagination by sugary romances such as Rudolf Besier’s 1930 play The Barretts of Wimpole Street and its 1964 musical adaptation Robert and Elizabeth.
Even the Google Doodle that celebrated her birthday in 2014 turned her into a girlish figure who appeared to be oddly fascinated by a wilting flower. Tiny in real life (Annie Thackeray described her as ‘very very small, not more than four feet eight inches I should think’), in death she has been treated more like a wax doll: a pretty simulacrum of a human being without any inner life at all.
There were some early warning signs in Virginia Woolf’s 1933 novel Flush, a playful version of Elizabeth Barrett’s life as seen from the perspective of her pet spaniel. In one scene Flush barks and trembles at his own reflection in a mirror: ‘Was not the little brown dog opposite himself?’ asks Woolf. ‘But what is “oneself”? Is it the thing people see? Or is it the thing one is?’ The central aim of Fiona Sampson’s new biography is to strip away the illusions we have about this unfashionable poet and get far closer to seeing her as she was. It is a bold attempt to understand EBB before her reputation started to ebb.
She was born in 1806, and her early life was in many ways a pastoral idyll. Growing up in a large country house in Herefordshire that was (to her considerable embarrassment as an adult) paid for by her family’s involvement in the slave trade, as a child she was encouraged to write poetry that made up in confidence for what it lacked in skill. (An ode on her sister Henrietta includes the lines: ‘But now you have a horrid cold, /And in an ugly night cap you are rolled.’) She was also a tomboy who boasted that she ‘could run rapidly & leap high’and ‘climb pretty well up trees’.
Then it all started to go wrong. By the time she was in her twenties, a long list of symptoms that included intense physical pain, crippling fatigue and bronchial infections that caused her to cough up what Sampson refers to as ‘slugs of yellow, grey, green mucus’, meant that she spent most days confined to her bedroom and a ‘little slip of sitting room’ on the third floor of 50 Wimpole Street, the family’s new London home. Here she was protected from the outside world by a fiercely loving and gloomily religious father, who refused to countenance the possibility that she might ever want to leave him for another man. It was like living in a nunnery of one.
Her main form of escape came through the poetry she continued to write, including heart-tugging appeals such as ‘The Cry of the Children’ (1842), which helped to publicise Lord Shaftesbury’s reform of the child labour laws, and a bestselling two-volume collection of Poems (1844). For someone whose life was usually enclosed by four walls, poems were like an extra set of windows she could open onto the world.
They were also far less willing to submit to the sort of limitations she had to settle for in her own life. A poem such as her semi-autobiographical epic Aurora Leigh (1856) is written in a form of blank verse that keeps fraying at the edges and sometimes gleefully bursts apart at the seams. Repeatedly the speaker’s voice reveals itself to be much more disruptive than it might at first appear: not that of an angel in the house, but rather of a woman who wants to show us how hard it is to move around while wearing a crinoline without bumping into the furniture.
The turning point of Elizabeth Barrett’s life was her first meeting with the man who would become her husband. Even before they saw each other it was clear how much they had in common. Robert Browning’s earliest communication with her in 1844 was a fan letter that he signed off: ‘I do, as I say, love these books with all my heart —and I love you too.’ And as their relationship blossomed over the next few months both of them enjoyed tangling together writing and real life.
Not only did they meet frequently in person — Robert would end up making 91 visits to Wimpole Street in total — they also wrote to each other almost daily, lovingly playing around with each other’s choice of language in a series of intimate allusions and private jokes. In effect they were practising for the time when their hands would be joined together more permanently in marriage. Each time one of Elizabeth’s letters left her bed-sitting room to make its way across London it was like a literary exercise in elopement.
After a secret marriage and rapid departure from Wimpole Street in 1846, their final destination was Italy, where they moved into a seven-roomed apartment in the Palazzo Guidi in Florence. Sampson is especially good on the happy routines of their life, as they spent their days eating ice cream, entertaining visitors, and writing, writing, writing.
Following this honeymoon period and the birth of a son, whom they jokingly nicknamed Pen, they seem to have drifted apart in terms of their daily activities. After disagreeing over matters such as spiritualism (Elizabeth was intrigued and hopeful, whereas Robert dismissed it as an absurd hoax), Sampson reports that within a few years they were ‘leading almost parallel lives’. Yet they remained as close as ever on paper. There is something painfully moving in Robert’s report of his wife’s last illness, as he lifted her up towards him and she kissed him repeatedly, even kissing the air after he had laid her back on the bed, and murmuring ‘Beautiful... beautiful’ as she held out her hands to him one last time. When she died he was broken by grief. ‘How she looks now,’ he wrote from her deathbed, ‘how perfectly beautiful.’
Sampson points out that in some ways these final moments were just the most literal version of a struggle that Elizabeth had always experienced as a female poet, forever ‘fighting for breath, determined to stay alive and to speak’, and this biography is a generous attempt to restore her reputation. The individual who emerges is not the sad-eyed invalid we are familiar with, but an ambitious woman who enjoyed teasing men. One letter to Robert during their courtship breaks off with an ellipsis that is also a saucy come-on, telling him that she longs ‘for some experience of life & man, for some…’) She could also be surprisingly catty. ‘I never could apprehend that a person with such breadth of chest & with so little tendency to becoming thin, was of a consumptive habit,’ she once observed of a friend’s daughter.
Occasionally Sampson’s attempts to turn her into a more contemporary figure strike a false note, with references to ‘virtue-signalling’ and ‘snowflakes’ that are themselves likely to sound outdated before too long. But, overall, this is a fine contribution to a growing number of biographies that try to pick off the barnacles of rumour and legend that have attached themselves to the lives of writers, and instead reveal them as they really were — or at least how they appear to us now.
Rescuing Elizabeth Barrett Browning from her wax-doll image. By Robert Douglas Fairhurst. The Spectator, January 30, 2021.
Growing up in Herefordshire, Ba, as she was affectionately known at home, was a tomboy who relished country living. However, as well as her overbearing family, Elizabeth faced another bodily oppression: grave but undiagnosed illness. Sampson speaks of the poet’s cloistering illness in the context of our own period of isolation. “She is a fascinating model of how to live a locked-down life,” Sampson tells me. “She railed against it frequently. She described it as a prison.” Indeed, Elizabeth’s social life largely depended on letters, “the equivalent of screen time now. I wouldn’t say that she profited from being shut away.”
Despite her physical problems, “she had a very clear mind-body distinction, which now we are not supposed to do; we are meant to be all anti-Cartesian,” says Sampson. Elizabeth resented her body—“my stupid vibrating body,” as she called it—yet her mind roamed free. She was prolific in her confinement, publishing poetry on Italian reunification and the abolition movement that “was having a huge leverage on public opinion in Britain… doing extraordinary things that changed European culture, the culture of a whole continent,” as Sampson puts it.
Alongside the themes of illness and isolation, another moment of Elizabeth’s life struck a chord. Her brother, known as Bro, comes to visit her in Torquay and drowns in an inexplicable boating accident. Elizabeth felt responsible for his death. Sampson points out that “years later she wrote to Robert [Browning, her husband] that she couldn’t get over the guilt and grief. She only writes about it once, about how she asked Bro to stay, that she knew he was bored and ‘quenching the energies of his life’ as she put it, and that she knew even her father needed him back in London for the family business and yet she got her way. To die in a boating accident even suggests dying of boredom in a way, through taking unnecessary risks. It was a wholly unnecessary death.”
Two-Way Mirror raises an intriguing question: do we become different people in different places? Elizabeth seems to adopt different characteristics as she moves from rural Hope End, to urban smoggy London, and then to Cornwall for her health—and finally to mainland Europe when she married Browning.
Sampson thinks there is a precursor here to digital nomadism, as the Brownings travel and write, sending their work back to London to be published. “There is a funny bifurcation, going from locked-down life to being a digital nomad. It’s encouraging actually, I think it’s something we should all pin our hopes to.” A strong sense comes out of Elizabeth’s letters from abroad that life is there for enjoying at long last.
“It is only when she gets to Europe and she is no longer a daughter in a household but head of her own that she can apply intellectual will to the problems of the world. She is doing this against the odds, as a woman and a woman living with chronic illness.”
Indeed, when she was young Elizabeth expressed optimism about the status of women, though she changed her mind when she came up against solid barriers. Although she could be published, even under her own name—unlike Charlotte Brontë, who opted for a male pseudonym to secure a publisher—criticism of Elizabeth’s work retained a patronising air from the literary establishment. “She’s practically [described as] a poetess, which is a diminutive, isn’t it,” says Sampson. “I do think these things haven’t gone away. I think she speaks enormously to women’s experience now particularly within literature and academia, publishing and journalism. Her experience is not, alas, obsolete.”
Elizabeth presents a mix between conformity to her era’s expectations as well as a pioneering defiance of their boundaries. “She pushed as hard as she could, as much as she could, mostly by writing, against those boundaries and I think she shifted those boundaries for public opinion,” says Sampson. The biographer sees a link between her battle with illness and her apparent conformity within her family prior to her elopement: “she had fought so hard to stay alive, she was happy to do the extra work, the planning, keeping a respectful life, to seem to conform in order to keep the space on the page, in order to radically not conform.”
The life of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Sampson concludes, “is a story about willpower. A story about absolute determination to be a writer: wilful, brave self-invention.”
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