Throw
over your man
‘The
world has always had lovers. And yet as near as I can observe, for thousands of
years the concentrated aim of society has been to cut down on kissing. With
that same amount of energy […] society could have stopped war, established
liberty, given everybody a free education, free bathtubs, free music, free
pianos and changed the human mind to boot.’ Janet Flanner
In the
decades before the Second World War, many creative women who loved women fled
the repressions and expectations of their home towns, such as Washington and
London, and formed a like-minded community in Paris. They wrote and published
what they wanted, lived as they chose and were at the vanguard of modernism,
the shift into twentieth-century ways of seeing and saying.I focus on the lives
and contribution of Sylvia Beach, Bryher, Natalie Barney and Gertrude Stein –
three were American, one was English. All rebelled against outworn art and
attitudes. Sylvia Beach started the bookshop Shakespeare and Company and
published James Joyce’s Ulysses when no commercial publisher could or would.
Bryher, born Winifred Ellerman, daughter of the richest man in England, used
her inheritance to fund new writing and film. Natalie Barney aspired to live
her life as a work of art and make Paris the sapphic centre of the Western
world. Gertrude Stein furthered the careers of modernist painters and writers
and broke the mould of English prose. All had women lovers whom they kissed,
and they changed the human mind to boot.
Within
each of their stories, other women figure large: where would Sylvia Beach be
without Adrienne Monnier, Bryher without the imagist poet H.D. (Hilda
Doolittle), Natalie Barney without all her lovers, too many to list, or
Gertrude Stein without Alice B. Toklas (‘little Alice B. is the wife for me’).
And then there were the women friends of the women friends, and the women they
kissed too…
They
gravitated to Paris and each other, turned their backs on patriarchy and
created their own society. Rather than staying where they were born and
struggling against censorship and outrageous denials and inequalities enforced
by male legislators, they took their own power and authority and defied the
stigma that conservative society tried to impose on them. Individually, each
made a contribution; collectively, they were a revolutionary force in the
breakaway movement of modernism, the shock of the new, the innovations in art,
writing, film and lifestyle and the fracture from nineteenth-century
orthodoxies.
In 1947
the novelist Truman Capote went to Romaine Brooks’s studio in Paris with
Natalie Barney. Natalie’s relationship with Romaine lasted fifty-four years,
until Romaine’s death in 1970. Romaine painted many of the lesbians in their
set; the portraits were large scale and lined the walls of her studio. Capote
called the collection ‘the all-time ultimate gallery of famous dykes’. They
formed, he said, ‘an international daisy-chain’.
I call
them all lesbians, but the words lesbian, dyke and daisy were not much used by
them. ‘Friend’ was the usual catch-all, though Natalie Barney nailed her
colours: ‘I am a lesbian. One need not hide it nor boast of it, though being
other than normal is a perilous advantage.’ She drew up and signed a bespoke
marriage contract with one of her partners, Lily de Gramont, duchesse de
Clermont-Tonnerre. Its terms would not have been countenanced in her home town
of Washington or by the French aristocracy. Gertrude Stein freely called Alice
her wife, and Bryher, who chose her own gender-neutral name, viewed herself
from an early age as a boy trapped in the body of a girl.
I duck
the initialism of the present age: the LGBTQIA, the QUILTBAG (queer or
questioning, undecided, intersex, lesbian, trans, bisexual, asexual or allied,
gay or genderqueer) plus the +. Added recently are P and K: P for pansexual or
polygamous and K for kink. And now there is prescriptive use of the pronoun
‘they’ for a person resistant to he or she. I favour H.D.’s revision: ‘When is
a woman not a woman? When obviously she is sleet and hail and a stuffed
sea-gull.’ But in French, sleet is masculine and seagull feminine, so where to
draw a line?
There
are but twenty-six letters in the Roman alphabet and life is short. Gertrude
Stein said of her large white poodle, Basket, that of his ABCs he knew only the
Bs – Basket, Bread and Ball. With canine simplicity, of my LGBs I use only the
Ls – Lesbians and Love. This is not to disrespect all efforts of inclusiveness
and search for identity and self-expression. I want a place in the rainbow. But
I am a tyro in this language class and when writing of past times, today’s
language seems incongruous. I cannot talk about cisgender for Virginia Woolf,
call Bryher they, or struggle with No Modernism Without QUILTBAG+. And all the
initials in the alphabet will not help in what I hope shines through: the
uniqueness, the utter singularity of each individual life. I juxtapose four
women within the lesbian category. Their juxtaposition shows the inadequacy of
any label. I marvel at how different, original and irreplaceable each one is,
formed by their childhood, their nature and nurture, imaginative in their
contribution, unique in who they happen to be. Lining them up highlights their
differences. For, of course, what matters from A to Z is not what you are, but
how you are what you are, and the contribution made.
In the
early decades of the twentieth century, censorship laws in Britain and America
prevented lesbians from publishing anything in fiction or fact about their love
lives. The subject matter was deemed obscene. Sex between consenting men was a
criminal act. The 1895 trial and ruin of Oscar Wilde hung in the air of English
society. Sex between consenting women was not illegal. Silence was the weapon
of its repression.
In 1920,
Violet Trefusis and Vita Sackville-West caused a furore when they eloped to
France and their respective husbands piloted a plane to bring them back. The
following year, a Conservative member of parliament, Frederick Macquisten, a
minister’s son, proposed that a clause ‘Acts of Gross Indecency Between Female
Persons’ be added to the Criminal Law Amendment Act of 1885, which indicted
Oscar Wilde. Lesbianism, he told the House of Commons, threatened the birth
rate, debauched young girls and induced neurasthenia and insanity. His clause
was agreed and went to the House of Lords to be ratified.
Their
lordships speculated on the effect of breaking silence. Lord Desart, who was
Director of Public Prosecutions when Oscar Wilde was indicted, said: ‘You are
going to tell the whole world there is such an offence, to bring it to the
notice of women who have never heard of it, never thought of it, never dreamed
of it. I think this is a very great mischief.’
Lord
Birkenhead, the Lord Chancellor, agreed:
‘’I am
bold enough to say that of every 1,000 women, taken as a whole, 999 have never
even heard a whisper of these practices. Among all these, in the homes of this
country, the taint of this noxious and horrible suspicion is to be imparted.’’
Whispered
or heard, ‘these practices’, Birkenhead believed, would cause contagion. In the
home of his mind, a woman’s place was on his arm and in his bed.
Then in
1928 came the startling trial and censorship of Radclyffe Hall’s anodyne novel
The Well of Loneliness. The only sexy bits in it were ‘she kissed her full on
the lips’ and ‘that night they were not divided’, but even such mild lesbian
expression was deemed obscene and the book was ‘burned in the King’s furnace’.
Radclyffe Hall left England for Paris with her partner, Una Troubridge. Sylvia
Beach sold pirated copies of The Well from Shakespeare and Company.
Paris
‘England
was consciously refusing the twentieth century’, Gertrude Stein said. America
enforced prohibition of alcohol as well as censorship of literature and art.
Lesbians with voices to be heard, who would not collude with silence and lying
about their existence, got out if they could in order to speak out. Paris was
waiting: the boulevards and bars, good food, low rents. It seemed on a
different planet from London. Paris was where they formed their own community,
fled the repressions and expectations of their fathers, took same-sex lovers,
and painted, wrote and published what they wanted.‘Paris’, Gertrude said, ‘was
where the twentieth century was’, ‘the place that suited those of us that were
to create the twentieth-century art and literature’. Indigenous Parisians held
their traditional views but did not mind these foreigners with alternative
lives. Gertrude Stein said they respected art and letters: it was not just what
Paris gave, she said, ‘it was all it did not take away’.
Modernism
would not have taken the shape it did without the lesbians who gravitated to
Paris at that time. There had been nothing like it since Sappho and the Island
of Lesbos. Many of them learned Greek to read extant Sappho fragments and wrote
their own verse in her honour.
Una, Lady Troubridge, painting by Romaine Brooks, 1924
Una, Lady Troubridge, painting by Romaine Brooks, 1924
As you
were when the autobus called
Freedom
of choice in dress and appearance was a crucial assertion. Why should fathers
dictate what their daughters could or should wear? ‘As you were when the
autobus called’ was a party inspired and orchestrated by Elsa Maxwell, who
turned party-giving into an art form and profession.Elsa Maxwell lived for
fifty years with ‘Dickie’, the socialite Dorothy Fellowes-Gordon. In
interviews, Elsa just said she was ‘not for marriage’, it was ‘not her thing to
do’ and that she belonged to the world.
Guests
at her as-you-were party were picked up from their homes by bus at an
unspecified time. They were to be as they were, dressed, groomed, ungroomed,
when the driver sounded the horn. Cocktails were served to those waiting in the
bus. For most, their ‘surprise appearance’ was contrived, costumes carefully
unfinished: unzipped skirts, a woman with her face half made-up, a man wrapped
in a towel with shaving soap on his face. But though guests were provocatively
half-dressed, the implicit questions were: What is ‘correct attire’ and true
appearance? Who is the real person, unmasked, as opposed to the presented self?
Paris allowed candour, and was where pretence could be stripped, expectations
confounded, identity fluid, and sexual relationships open. The autobus was a
vehicle for transparency, free expression and the breaking of rules.
Modernism
Modernism
sent fissures through a whole bundle of myths: that a narrative must have a
beginning, a middle and an end, and romance be between a hero and heroine; that
art should be representative and music follow familiar notations. The modernist
movement questioned orthodoxies: that God made the world in seven days, that
Christ was the Son of God, parented by a virgin and a ghost, that there were
tangible domains of heaven and hell, that kings were in their palaces by divine
right, that man was king of all species, and that war was an acceptable way of
resolving conflict between nations.
Money
Virginia
Woolf said a woman must have 500 guineas a year and a room of her own if she
were to write fiction, plus the habit of freedom ‘and the courage to write
exactly what we think’. It was hard for most women to come by one of those
things, let alone all. The large bank accounts of Bryher and Natalie Barney
came from wealth inherited from their fathers. Both subsidized and financed
friends and fellow artists; Bryher in particular was a lifelong and unstinting
patron of what was new in the arts. Gertrude Stein was comfortably off, her
income managed by her savvy elder brother Michael, who invested in American
railroads. Her true fortune was made by indulging her passion for buying
paintings to hang on the walls of her rented home. She bought works by Picasso,
Matisse, Cézanne while they were still young and unknown. Her collection was
soon beyond price; she could not afford insurance cover. Sylvia Beach had no
private income – her father was a vicar – and her constant problem was how to
glean enough to keep her projects going. Bryher gave her money and so did
Natalie Barney. More than the privilege of having wealth was how those with it
used it. None of the moneyed modernist lesbians looked for profit. They used
money made by men to further the modernist cause.
Escape
from patriarchy
Same-sex
relationships have always been there, have always been diverse, complex and
individual. It was always far past time for the world to recognize that truth.
‘You can’t censor human nature’, was Sylvia Beach’s view. It was always
senseless to close the door on benign relationships of the heart, which will
express themselves, however brutal, damaging and disheartening any penalties
imposed.The Paris lesbians had to free themselves from male authority, the
controlling hand, the forbidding edict. They escaped the disapproval of fathers
and the repression of censors and law-makers, defined their own terms and
shaped their own lives. They did not reject all men – they were intrinsic to
furthering the careers of writers, film-makers and artists whose work and ideas
they admired. What shifted was the power base, the chain of command.
A
community of women who called the shots was no bad idea 100 years ago, nor is
it a bad idea now. Why are there still so few works by women in the art
galleries, why are their symphonies and songs not filling the concert halls or
their statutes defining the laws of the land?
‘It is
true that I only want to show off to women. Women alone stir my imagination’,
Virginia Woolf wrote in 1930 to the composer and suffragist Ethel Smyth, who
had declared love to her. Women needed their 500 guineas, a room of their own
and ‘the habit of freedom and the courage to write exactly what we think’.
Three years earlier, Woolf had written to Vita Sackville-West, with whom she
was, in her way, in love: ‘Look here Vita – throw over your man and we’ll go to
Hampton Court and dine on the river together and walk in the garden in the
moonlight and come home late and have a bottle of wine and get tipsy and I’ll
tell you all the things I have in my head… They won’t stir by day, only by dark
on the river. Think of that. Throw over your man, I say, and come.’
‘Throw
over your man’ was quite a call. It might have been a way forward before the
cataclysm of two world wars. War tore apart the lesbian web woven by the women
in these pages. It might be a way forward now, in the dark, tipsy and in love,
in the beautiful garden the world might be, before the moonlight disappears and
all the things in women’s heads are lost forever.
‘Throw
over your man, I say, and come.’
Excerpt
from : No Modernism without Lesbians. By Diana Souhami. Diana Souhami.com
No
Modernism Without Lesbians launch video. Facebook , April 4, 2020.
Diana
Souhami has just published a new book titled 'No Modernism Without Lesbians'.
Discussions in this episode centre around personal anecdotes and experiences,
Diana's unique take on history and lesbian characters, as well as musings on
what a post-pandemic future might look like. There are also reflections on the
notion of identity and how labels such as, for example, the idea of
'Jewishness', 'Germanness' or 'Queerness' play into this. Jess W. talks with her.
A Lesbian Affair. Episode 008 - Diana
Souhami. May 22, 2020.
It was
back in the eighties when I went to the British Library to start my research on
lesbians which I had discovered in the very coded descriptions of Dale
Spenders’ book, “Women of Ideas and What Men Have Done to Them”. I was
desperate to discover what lesbians had achieved before me, who they were and
how had they acted in the world. I was an angry feminist lesbian trying to make
sense of my life under patriarchy. The British Library was not much help. I was
befuddled by the Dewey system and requests to the staff asking about lesbians
were received with cold looks and little help.
However,
I did discover the coterie of lesbians who went to Paris in the early 20th
century to escape the strictures of the USA and Britain. I was both excited and
shocked by what seemed to me then, their rather hedonistic, self-centred and
privileged lifestyles.
I have
read most of Diana Souhami’s previous books about several of these women. She
enabled me to re-evaluate the legacy of these lesbians such as Gluck, Stein and
Trefuse and to recognise that their lives were not as self-indulgent as I had
thought.
This
book, “No Modernism without Lesbians” forces me to further consider the roles
of these lesbians in forming a cultural movement. Diana has chosen four
lesbians to spotlight: Gertrude Stein, Sylvia Beach, Bryher and Natalie Barney. In her introduction Souhami quotes Virginia
Woolf to Vita Sackville West, “Throw over your man, I say, and come”. She
posits that these women/lesbians/bisexuals/trans and all the others she so
skilfully weaves into the book were challenging patriarchy by their very
existence and choices. She also makes
the case for considering their roles in nurturing and supporting in many ways,
the artistic movement known as ‘Modernism’. To quote Kathleen Kuiper:
“Modernism, in the fine arts, a break with the past and the concurrent search
for new forms of expression. Modernism fostered a period of experimentation in
the arts from the late 19th to the mid-20th century, particularly in the years
following World War I.”
The
book’s premise, “No Modernism Without Lesbians” is a bold assertion and one
that has caused a stir amongst historians.
Diana’s choice of women depicts the variety of ways that these lesbians
contributed to and cradled the movement. Bryher and Beach primarily sponsored
artists, giving them financial, residential and emotional support. Stein, like
Barney held regular salons where artists met, networked and built their
reputations. Both women were artists themselves; Stein was a writer and Barney
made her life her work of art, as she proclaimed.
Souhami’s
wealth of knowledge about all these lesbians and their intricate circles within
circles is vast. The index is a who’s who of the rich, famous, infamous and
should be knowns, of the times. Souhami makes it easy for anyone to follow up
on these lesbians by providing us with a meticulous amount of information,
image credits, citations, references all the books she used, and tells us where
the archives are. She gives us lists of the works of each woman. This is a gift
in itself and I hope will enable and inspire readers to produce plays, films
and other writings so these extraordinary lesbians become better known and
celebrated. She has enabled us to learn as she says, “to see what lesbians
achieved and can achieve when, collectively they dictate their own agenda.”
I am in
awe of how she organised all the facts, stories and quotes and then so deftly
wove them, so we can see the glittering patch work of interlinked lives, broken
threads and startling colours laid out before us. It is a challenging read
because of its complexity, and it is a magic carpet that takes you into Paris
at an extraordinary time of creativity and hedonism. It was the perfect book to
read now, as I sit in quarantine. It
engulfed me in a different century, and I became enthralled with their lives,
concerns of the heart and their determination to take some power in the world
of publishing.
Gertrude
Stein arrived in Paris, 1903, from the USA to join her brother. She was one of
the first people to buy a ‘Picasso’ and for a while they were close friends.
Picasso’s portrait of Stein took eighty to ninety sittings because they talked
so much. Gertrude thought their artistic
intentions were similar – “to change ways or expression in art – she in words
and he in paint, to move on from strictures, structures conventions,
expectations and limitations to take risks and break moulds.” Her brother turns
against them both, calling their efforts “God almighty rubbish,” “haemorrhoids,
cubico-futuristic tommy rotting”. Stein disagreed with him and said they sought
“to express things seen not as one knows them but as they are when one sees
them without remembering having looked at them”.
Together
they got to know Matisse, and Cezanne and buy their works. They also purchased works by Toulouse-
Lautrec, Bonnard, Vuillard, Gauguins and Renoirs. They bought them because as
Souhami says, “for Gertrude, their ideas – resonant in their work — new ways of
seeing and departure from received forms of expression, echoed her own
thinking.” (If you have not read Stein this may not make sense.)
Steins
says, “Cezanne gave me a new feeling about composition. I was obsessed by this
idea of composition. It was not solely the realism of characters but the
realism of the composition which was the important thing. This had not been
conceived as a reality until I came along but I got it largely from Cezanne.”
Souhami’s
chapter on Stein further demonstrates clearly to me how she was both involved
and supportive of the new ways of working in the visual arts. She was herself
an author of modernistic literature and she supported other writers of her era.
She was a great friend to both Hemmingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald. They sought
and valued her opinions of their work.
Gertrude’s
work was not always understood or valued by her fellow countrymen and getting
it published was often an arduous process. It is worth noting that however,
that her ‘Four Saints in Three Acts, became an opera with Virgil Thompson
writing the music. It was performed with an all-black cast in 1934, at the
Atheneum Theatre, New Haven, Connecticut, a part of the New York metropolitan
area. It was a smash hit, and as Souhami says, “while fascism was eating at the
heart of European civilisation, ‘Four Saints in Three Acts’ rang out — zany,
inclusive, playful joyful and open.” Such
a different America from the one Stein and the others had fled earlier. Souhami, makes it clear just how hard it was
for books we now take for granted, to get printed. So many of them were
published due to support of lesbians.
Sylvia
Beach also arrived in Paris from America in 1903. But it was not until 1919,
after she had discovered A. Monnier’s Bookshop.
Adrienne was to become both her business and life partner. She soon set
up her own bookshop across the street in St Germain, the famous ‘The Shakespeare
& Co’.
Diana
states “Making money was not the prime consideration. Neither of them was much
good at that. Both loved books and their authors. Books were essential to
civilised living. Both saw their work as contribution rather than commerce.” Beach’s intention was to specialise in modern
innovative writing in English. The shop acted as a lending Library and a
welcoming meeting place for authors.
“Customers did not want to only buy books – she might have made some
money if they had. Shakespeare and Company quickly evolved into a bookshop,
library, a book club, bank, post office, hotel, referral agency, and a place to
meet and talk about books and life and have tea. Her fame lasted for the whole
tenure of Shakespeare and Company right up until Hitler’s Nazi army closed it
down and interned her in 1942.”
Souhami
went into detail about how Sylvia became involved with James Joyce. It was her
unfailing support that enabled him to be published. She picked up the torch
from other lesbians, Harriet Weaver and Dora Marsden, who had tried to
serialize Ulysses in their literary magazine, ‘The Egoist’ which was England’s
most important modernist periodical. Two other lesbians, Margaret Anderson and
Jane Heap, had also wanted to serialise the book in their New York magazine,
‘The Little Review’. They published 23 instalments. On no less than four
occasions, posted issues containing Episodes of Ulysses were confiscated and
burned by the United States Post Office based on allegations of obscenity.
Beach
spent years and money she could ill afford to get Ulysses published. So much time and energy that her relationship
with Adrienne was threatened. Bryher sent her money frequently to enable her to
stay afloat. Ulysses was finally published in 1920, and banned in both England
and the USA. In response to the publication, another lesbian, Harriet Weaver,
got involved in attempting to distribute it in England, only to see 500 copies
being burned in the ‘Kings Chimney’.
As an
unintended consequence, Beach gained a reputation as a publisher and vendor of
pornography. Many writers of books, censored as obscene, asked to be published
by her. Richard Aldington and Aldous Huxley attempted to persuade her to
publish DH Lawrence. She declined. Diana
tells us, “Tallulah Bankhead’s agent asked if she would publish Tallulah’s memoirs. Sylvia doubted she would have turned that
down, but no manuscript arrived.
Tallulah’s name, like Greta Garbo was another link in the daisy-chain of
famous lesbians.”
Souhami tells us, “Bryher felt trapped in the
wrong body. Even as a child she viewed
her birth gender as a trick, a mistake.
She saw herself as a boy who needed to escape from the physical cage of
a girl. She was tormented by pressure to
have curls, wear frocks, be called by her birth names, Annie Winifred, or her
nickname, Dolly….… Bryher did not want the patronymic of her father, the
matronymic of her mother or the name of any husband of convenience. Bryher is one of the Isles of Scilly, off the
Cornish Coast, a part of the world she came particularly to love.”
She was
born into great wealth which she used to support artists and was a patron of
the modernists. Of herself, Bryher says, “I have rushed to the penniless young,
not with bowls of soup but with typewriters.” Diana credits Bryher as ‘the rock
and saviour of her partner, the poet, H.D. (Hilda Doolittle). She funded the Contact Publishing Company in
Paris, supported James Joyce and his family with a monthly allowance, gave
money to Sylvia Beach and subsidized Margaret Anderson’s ‘Little Review’, in
New York. She started the film company
POOL Productions in Switzerland, financed its experimental films and founded
‘Close Up’, the first film magazine in English. She built a Bauhaus-style home
in Switzerland. She supported the
emerging psychoanalytical movement in Vienna, and funded Freud and other Jewish
intellectuals hounded by the Nazis to help them get out of Germany and
Austria.” Formidable accomplishments
made possible by her great wealth and passion like Beach’s and Monnier’s, “to
be of service.”
Natalie
Barney, the fourth focus of Souhami’s book, says “Love has always been the main
business of my life”. Diana comments, “This main business involved lots of
sex. Natalie went where desire led
her. She shared her bed, the train couchette,
her polar bear rug, the riverbank or wooded glade with many women, and not
always one at a time. Modernism in Natalie’s life upended codes of conduct for
sexual exchange. For Natalie, modernism meant lovers galore. ”Barney was
another rich refugee from the puritanical attitudes of the United States. Like Bryher, she was very wealthy; however,
she did not share the same passion to be of service, she was far too busy being
busy. As she says, “The finest life is spent creating oneself, not
procreating”. She was, however, a walking visual aid of queerness. Souhami puts
it better, “Her inspired contribution was to be transparent about same sex
desire in a repressed and repressive age.
Too impatient, privileged and self-occupied to give much time to a task
or a cause, she led by candid example. Many women followed and were liberated
by her courage.”
The list
of her lovers includes many poets, writers and artists of modernism who she
brought together to learn of each other’s works and ideas in her regular and
extremely popular salons. She had a house in Neuilly and in homage to Sappho
staged tableaus there. Diana says, “she
sketched her rules for sapphic love: ‘women were to relinquish ties to family —
husbands, children and country — and instead write, dance, compose and act on
their love and desire for each other’.”
This was
easier for some women than others, of course and possible for her as she had
inherited the equivalent of about $75 million in today’s money! It is perhaps difficult to imagine the world
she inhabited and created but as Souhami plainly says, she created “the Sapphic
centre of the western world.”
The list
of lesbians who frequented her homes is long and what follows is by no means
comprehensive: the Hellenist Evelina Palmer, the courtesan Lianne de Pougy, the
poets Lucie Dearue-Marrus, Rene Vivien and Olive Constanve, the writers Lily de
Gramont, Colette and Djuna Barnes, Dolly Wilde, Radclyffe Hall, Gertrude Stein,
the portrait painters Romaine Brooks and Gluck, the patron and socialite Nancy
Cunard. These serve to demonstrate the
‘daisy chain of dykes’ referred to by Truman Capote. The richness of this book
is that as well as Souhami’s choice of these four women she included a myriad
of other lesbians who were active at the time and in and out of each other’s
lives, beds and creativity. It is also a treasure in that she has done so much
work in researching and documenting these lesbians and their archives, she
deserves our massive thanks. That so many of the lesbians included will be
unknown to me and you, is an indictment of our education and media. To bring
them all together on one book in such a lucid and entertaining way is a
valuable achievement. I am eternally grateful to her in pointing out not only
their creativity and roles in birthing modernism, but also depicting their
political work. They deserve our admiration for being out lesbians at a time of
great oppression, active volunteers in wars caring for the wounded and as
rescuers of people from certain death by facilitating their escapes from the
Nazis. Diana Souhami has unearthed and brought to life a fascinating,
formidable feast of lesbians of whom we can be proud when we look for role
models.
“No
Modernism Without Lesbians”, by Diana Souhami. By Andrew. LGBT+ History Month. May 9, 2020.
I like a
book that can put its point in four outrageous words and use it as its title.
Diana Souhami might be right. Without the women her book is devoted to,
literary modernism would have looked very different. A consciously new approach
to writing met a body of women who were being heard for the first time; the
results were compelling. At the beginning of a novel by one of them, Gertrude
Stein’s The Making of Americans, the terror of masculine traditions is
concisely stated:
‘ Once
an angry man dragged his father along the ground through his own orchard.
‘Stop!’, cried the groaning old man at last, ‘Stop! I did not drag my father
beyond this tree.’
If
culture were ever to break those bonds of duty and repetition, it might be in
the form of women, bonded primarily to other women, and creating objects in
prose and verse never conceived of before.
Lesbian
women had appeared in Victorian novels, but depicted in a characteristically
indirect, deniable way — Dickens describing Miss Wade, for example, or Wilkie
Collins’s Marian Halcombe. The law in England never took any account of
lesbianism: it wasn’t, contrary to myth, Queen Victoria’s intervention, but the
belief of the House of Lords that no woman would ever think of doing such
things unless it was brought to her attention by legal proscription.
In
French literature, the question had long been addressed with more clarity, at
least as far back as Diderot’s La Religieuse; there are unambiguous lesbians in
Balzac’s La Fille aux yeux d’or and in Baudelaire. It is sometimes thought that
the many lesbian relationships in Proust are rudimentary translations of his
male lovers’ heterosexual flings, but to me he seems fascinated by the
secretive circles that Albertine and Andrée move in, and to have observed the
reality of lesbian society very carefully.
It won’t
have escaped notice that all these examples are written by men. It wasn’t until
the 20th century that lesbian women started not just writing from their own
experiences, but publishing their writing. For the first time, they were in a
position to live openly and play important parts in the literary world.
Perhaps
encouraged by the long-standing openness of French literature towards their
feelings, these women were drawn to Paris, where they made a stir. ‘Ils sont pas des hommes, ils sont pas des
femmes, ils sont des Américains,’ Picasso said. Souhami’s book is about four of them, and the
circles around them. Sylvia Beach was the founder of Shakespeare and Company in
Paris, and the first publisher of Joyce’s Ulysses. Bryher was a poet and
novelist, and the partner of the Imagist poet Hilda Doolittle, who wrote as
H.D. Natalie Barney hosted the great Paris salon of modernism, living until 95
in an atmosphere of inexhaustible scandal. And Gertrude Stein was, of course, a
novelist and early collector of Picasso, Cézanne and Matisse.
Two
things are immediately apparent. The first is that most of these women were
given the possibility of living openly by having independent means — sometimes
as a result of immense inherited wealth. Bryher’s father left £36 million when
he died in 1933, his legacy enabling her to live more or less as she liked —
including building a Bauhaus villa at Vevey on Lake Geneva. She could also
afford to heavily subsidise the one woman among them who didn’t have money of
her own, Sylvia Beach.
The
second point is just how many women mentioned by Souhami changed their names as
soon as they were able. Pauline
Tarn became Renée Vivien; Anne-Marie Chassaigne became Liane de Pougy. Girlish first names were easily
dispensed with: Hannah Gluckstein became Gluck, Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette
became Colette tout court, and Radclyffe Hall, who started life as Marguerite
Radclyffe-Hall, went on to be known as John in private. The phenomenon wasn’t
limited to lesbians. Cicily Fairfield early on saw how hopeless her birth name
was for a woman writer of serious tendencies, and called herself Rebecca West,
after Ibsen’s heroine. Like West, Bryher felt that ‘Annie Winifred Glover’ just
wouldn’t do. They renamed themselves, and something new began.
Sylvia
Beach had no idea how bookshops were run, or how books were published, and
everyone was the better off for her ignorance. The first of Shakespeare and
Company’s ‘bunnies’, as she called its abonnés, or subscribers, was André Gide,
closely followed by Gertrude Stein, who demanded that The Trail of the Lonesome
Pine and Gene Stratton-Porter’s A Girl of the Limberlost (‘a sequel to her
earlier novel Freckles’) be stocked. Forever afterwards the shop was run in the
interests of undeserving writers.
Nor
would any publisher have allowed Ulysses to run out of control in the way it
did (Souhami says that at least a third of the novel was added at proof stage,
enormously increasing the costs). The sad aspect of Beach’s inexperience was
that she relied entirely on Joyce, and when he understandably decamped to
Random House in 1933 she was emotionally and financially bereft.
Natalie
Barney wrote herself — some Pierre Louys-like amorous poems about same-sex love
as early as 1900 — but her main significance was as a hostess, and impresario
of scandal. Another lesbian hostess, the Princesse de Polignac, formerly Winnie
Singer, may have been more culturally impressive, commissioning music from
Ravel, Prokofiev and Stravinsky, but Natalie sounds more fun. She described
herself without qualification as a lesbian, and may have been the first in
modern times to convert a cult of Sappho into a visit to Lesbos — which, even in
1904, was not quite the paradise of myrtle groves and hyacinth gardens of her
imagination. (‘An elderly woman cooked their food. Renée gave hers to the
dogs.’)
Souhami’s
account of Barney’s life, her many affairs and excesses, has a breathless
hilarity as one duchess succeeds another in Barney’s passions. (‘In 1922, Liane
de Pougy, who had risen up the social ladder to become Princess Ghika, formed a
sexual threesome with Natalie and Lily’.) She was still picking up women on the
Promenade des Anglais in Nice in her eighties.
Gertrude
Stein is at the other end of things; there was no marriage so utterly faithful
and based in total mutual devotion as Gertrude’s with Alice B. Toklas. Souhami
has already written a wonderfully entertaining joint biography of the two, but
her new book places Stein in a more specific context than before. She had
enough money to write as she chose, and the results were extraordinarily
challenging. Oddly, I find her more readable as time goes on; even The Making
of Americans now seems monumental but not impenetrable, and modern in places
where Ulysses has an encyclopaedic, even Victorian air. She really was doing
something new.
The
figure who emerges with considerable credit is Bryher. She has been rather
forgotten, apart from her connection with H.D., but she was evidently a
clear-sighted and very intelligent woman. A small example: when she bought the
magazine Life and Letters in 1935, she stockpiled so much paper in anticipation
of the coming war that it could continue publication throughout the shortages.
A larger
example might be her absolute clarity — in an article as early as 1933, called
‘What Shall You Do in the War?’ — that the Nazi attempt ‘to exterminate a whole
section of the population’ would need to be confronted. ‘I cannot understand
how any person anywhere who professed to the slightest belief in ethics could
stand aside at such a moment.’
Not
every member of a troubled minority has sympathy for the members of another,
but Bryher had the sort of vision that often goes with impatience with the
expectations of others. She turned up at the London opening of Show Boat at her
parents’ demands, entering the Royal Box in a floral chiffon dress with
‘what was meant to be a draped cape behind
hung down in front as if to conceal pregnancy. Bryher was wearing the dress
inside out and back to front. ‘How is one to know?’, she asked.’
Souhami
is one of our most rewarding and inventive biographers, and this book is a
splendidly hectic and vivid read. She has a novelist’s gift for the deft
evocation. Beach’s appearance was ‘sprightly but unremarkable. She was five
foot two, thin, with a brisk walk, determined chin, bobbed hair and brown eyes
behind steel rimmed glasses.’ Neither Gertrude nor Alice ‘ever wore trousers...
on one occasion Gertrude was mistaken for a bishop’. And she is often funny.
When quoting a terrible poem by a Baroness Elsa von Freytag-Loringhoven (‘So
noble soul so weak a body/Thine body is the prey of mice’) Souhami just says:
‘It went on like that.’
There is
a justifiable crusading element here, and there is no doubt that literary
history has gone to some lengths to erase the presence, and nature, of
lesbians. Souhami quotes with some scorn the absurdly misleading 1983 New York
Times obituary of Bryher. Nowadays, these women are likely to be referred to
under the euphemistic heading of ‘gender nonconformists’, when they were often
absolutely clear about who and what they were. If No Modernism Without Lesbians
goes some way towards making us understand how they thought of themselves, and
what they did, it will have done some good.
The cult
of Sappho in interwar Paris. By Philip Henscher. The Spectator , April 18, 2020
As Diana
Souhami sees it, lesbianism is much more than a sexual preference: it extends
into an artistic vocation, an enraptured emotional cult and a political
campaign that challenges the bullyboy patriarchs who assumed that “women’s
bodies belong to men” and should be consecrated to perpetuating the male line.
Souhami has written several fine biographies of what Truman Capote once
reprehensibly called the “daisy-chain” of “butch-babes”; now, in a
comprehensive cultural history, she awards lesbians the credit for modernising
art, manners and morals in the early 20th century.
Like a
tabloid headline, her book’s title is intended to provoke, and it depends on a
somewhat tenuous analogy: “modernism in art upended 19th-century rules of
narrative and form”, so why shouldn’t modernity in life revise the “codes of
conduct for sexual exchange”, licensing women to defy men or dispense with them
and love each other instead? To paraphrase her slogan a little more modestly,
what Souhami shows is that there might have been no modernism if the lesbian
bookseller Sylvia Beach had not arranged to publish James Joyce’s Ulysses in
Paris when editors in London and New York, fearing prosecution for obscenity,
refused to touch it.
Beach,
who founded the Left Bank bookshop Shakespeare and Company, behaved towards
Joyce with a wifely devotion that was lacking in his actual spouse, the
rebarbative Nora Barnacle. She happily performed the endless editorial chores
he set her, and glorified the labour as her “missionary endeavour’. The moment
that wealthier backers became available, Joyce of course forgot about her
service to him. The ancient female function of helpmeet was hard to shed.
Beach’s shop, installed in a former laundry, was a domestic space, furnished
with comfortable chairs and vases of flowers; brewing tea or lending books to
customers who could not afford to buy them, she officiated as a mother hen.
Another
of Souhami’s characters dispensed patronage on a grander scale. Bryher – born
Annie Winifred Glover, though she reinvented herself by borrowing a new name
from one of the Scilly Isles – was the munificent daughter of a shipping
magnate. She bankrolled the artistic whims of everyone she knew, paid Freud a
small fortune to psychoanalyse her lover Hilda Doolittle, and presented Edith
Sitwell with a house. In her saintlier or dottier moments, she played Lady
Bountiful to strangers in the street: she bought new dentures for a woman she
found toothlessly chomping in a bread queue, and replaced the ill-fitting
wellington boots of a woebegone fireman.
Throughout
her book, Souhami rails at the “old-style masculine domination” that results in
war, mass murder and sexual repression. As the jack-booted invaders march into
Paris in 1940, trampling what was once “the sapphic centre of the western
world”, she calls patriarchy “militaristic, fascistic”. Yet power is not an
exclusively male preserve, and it lurks in the relationships between women
examined here. The painter and poet Natalie Barney appears as a reckless
predator who breaks a sofa when pouncing on a supine seducee; the Princesse de
Polignac – another heiress, born Winnaretta Singer, whose liberation was
bankrolled by her family’s output of sewing machines – brings the skittish
Violet Trefusis to heel with a whip.
Gertrude
Stein and Alice B Toklas act out a paradoxical variant of this power play.
Stein was cubistically solid, gruff and glowering, while Toklas, even with her
bristly moustache, looked meek and dainty. Alice kept house, cooked, and allowed
Gertrude to be a full-time genius, which was hard work because “you have to sit
around so much doing nothing”. Yet the apparent weakling in this menage turned
out to be the slave-driver, as Ernest Hemingway testified when he overheard
Stein beg for mercy as she was tongue-lashed by the partner she called “Pussy”.
Stein
made up for such grovelling when she announced her artistic status by declaring
that “20th-century literature is Gertrude Stein”. Her self-puffery now sounds
absurd, and Souhami’s view of her as “the mother and father of modernism” is
not much more persuasive. At best, Stein was the fairy godmother of modernism.
Like Beach and Barney, she kept a salon where she performed the traditional
role of hostess, supervising the camaraderie of the male painters, writers and
musicians who attended; armed with the inevitable private income, derived in
her case from San Francisco streetcars, she amassed an uninsurably valuable
collection of paintings by Cézanne, Picasso and Matisse, which she left unframed
and sometimes casually stashed in closets.
Daunted
by Stein’s droning epic The Making of Americans, Souhami has better luck with
the avian burbling of her libretto for Virgil Thomson’s all-black opera Four
Saints in Three Acts. Here Stein’s verbal tics are subsumed into music, and
Souhami writes about the witty, frothy piece with verve. Then, getting
overzealous, she claims that Four Saints was more epochal and innovative than
Ulysses, if only because Joyce’s novel was still fuddy-duddily “bound within
the covers of a book”.
Souhami
ends with some blithe mimicry of Stein’s echolalia, rejoicing in a Parisian
paradise where “lovers of love and refreshment in life still loved, and loved
lovers and loved love”. I abbreviate a long alliterating paragraph of
hallelujahs: here is Capote’s daisy chain made of words, though the repetitions
hardly erase memories of the miserable childhoods and agonising affairs Souhami
has chronicled. Love is lovely and even heavenly, but sex, regardless of
gender, can be diabolical.
No
Modernism Without Lesbians by Diana Souhami – review. By Peter Conrad. The Guardian,
March
24, 2020.
During
the second and third decades of the 20th century, Paris was home to a thriving
lesbian subculture. In lively bars in Montmartre and elegant apartments on the
Left Bank, women who loved women were forging new identities, innovating
artistic forms and taking on centuries-old cultural institutions.
If you
were a lesbian in Paris in the 1920s or early ʼ30s, on the lookout for love or
something more short term, chances are you would have wound up at Le Monocle.
As a
woman of means, you might have strode there in a finely tailored tuxedo, a
white carnation in your buttonhole, a cigar between your lips and a monocle
perched on your cheek, not a strand of closely cropped hair fluttering in the
evening breeze; if, however, you came from the lower ranks of Parisian society,
and were likewise inclined towards a more masculine attitude and style, your
journey to the bar would likely have been more covert – no matter how stiffly
the wind blew, it probably never quite explained the blanket wrapped around you
from head to toe. But, once inside, every woman was free to sip champagne and
dance with whomever she pleased.
During
the interwar years, Paris was among the most liberal cities in the world – not
quite as open-minded as Berlin but far more progressive than, say, London or
New York – a haven for artists, writers and freethinkers. Against this
relatively permissive backdrop, a vibrant lesbian subculture blossomed, out in
public, in Montmartre bars like Le Monocle, and in private abodes, more often
than not in the swanky apartments belonging to the Left Bank intelligentsia.
Foremost
among the elite salons of the day was that of American playwright, poet,
novelist and railroad-car heiress Natalie Clifford Barney – or The Amazon, as
the poet Remy de Gourmont nicknamed her after she made headlines for riding
astride, rather than sidesaddle, as was then customary for women of her
standing. From 1909 until her death, in 1972, at the age of 95, Barney hosted
her legendary ‘Fridays’ at her home at 20 rue Jacob. There’s not a famous
Modernist or lesbian, let alone a lesbian Modernist, living in Paris at that
time who didn’t pass through her doors.
Regulars
at Barney’s soirées included Gertrude Stein and her long-time partner, Alice B
Toklas – themselves hosts of a popular salon, one frequented by the painters,
such as Henri Matisse and Pablo Picasso, whose careers Stein helped launch –
the American painter Romaine Brooks, known for her portraits of women in this
particular social circle, the Anglo-American poet Renée Vivien and Colette, the
pioneering French author who immortalised the prevailing dandy-esque look of
certain, in her (affectionate) words, “mannish women” in her 1932 book The Pure
and the Impure.
In 1927,
in an attempt to promote women’s writing, Barney founded the Académie des
Femmes. She intended it to be a counterpoint to the Académie française, the
illustrious council tasked with ruling on all matters pertaining to the French
language. Founded in 1635, it didn’t admit its first immortelle (its members
have traditionally been known as les immortels, or the immortals, which,
besides being more than a little grandiose, is an inherently gendered term in
the French), Marguerite Yourcenar, until 1980. In the end, Barney’s initiative
was short lived.
Rather
than for her literary contributions, either as a writer or a benefactor, and
quite apart from her achievements as a society hostess, Barney is remembered
for her unashamedly public, and unashamedly numerous, relationships. Blessed
with the financial and social security afforded by inherited wealth, she was
able to openly pursue prominent women from the literary and art worlds as well
as the lingering aristocracies of Europe. Her liaisons, rarely monogamous but
typically life-long, earned her depictions in many important lesbian works –
most notably as Valerie Seymour in Radclyffe Hall’s groundbreaking novel The
Well of Loneliness (1928).
Indeed,
it was the visibility and vivacity with which sapphic desire could be fulfilled
in Paris (albeit relative to your position in the pecking order) that made it,
as far as lesbians were concerned, the queer capital of Europe – even more so
than Berlin. Women who had the money and freedom to travel came from the UK,
the USA and across Europe to attend salons such as Barney’s and drink and dance
in the city’s lesbian bars.
This
heyday, however, was tied to the prosperity of les années folles (The Roaring
’20s), and did not last long into the 1930s. The nation’s politics lurched to
the right following the Great Depression, and little of Paris’s lesbian
subculture survived the German occupation of the capital, which lasted from 14
June 1940 until 25 August 1944.
As much
as the Nazi regime drove queer people even further underground, and in many
cases sent them to their deaths, it did not wipe them out completely. And, as
Europe emerged from the shadow of war, so too did this community rebuild and
reassert itself. In 1966, the legacy of Le Monocle, and those who brought it to
life, took centre stage when Yves Saint Laurent unveiled his women’s tuxedo, Le
Smoking, on a Paris runway. It was at once a radical statement of female
empowerment amid the decade’s sexual revolution and a nod, with all the world
watching, to the free-living, free-loving lesbians who first donned the look.
Between
the Wars, Paris Was the City of Lesbian Love. By Paul McQueen, an updated version of a story created by Jade
Cuttle. The Culture Trip, July 1, 2019.
Also interesting
1928:
Sapphic Modernity and the Sexuality of History. By Susan S. Lanser. Modernismmodernity , October 25, 2016.
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